Ephesians 5:1-20 | BE IMITATORS OF GOD – Follow God’s Example


Be Imitators of God

Follow God’s Example

By Mark Moon


Ephesians 5:1-20

Key Verse: 5:1


“Be imitators of God, therefore, as dear loved children” [“Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children….”]


In chapter 4, we thought about unity in church. Those who accept Christ as Lord, regardless of their human backgrounds, become “one” as members of God’s church. To accept Christ as Lord is essential to become one. To accept Christ as Lord means to submit to his Lordship. Christ is head of the body and the center of the church. Each member must live a Christ-centered life and grow to the full measure of Christ’s image, that is, grow in godliness.


As we learned in 4:24, those who accept Jesus as their Lord are created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. That means the seed of God’s life has been planted in them and they grow in God’s likeness. In chapter 5 Apostle Paul gives more specific instructions how we can grow in godliness in the three key words: “love,” “holy,” and “light.” These are God’s character. God is love (1 John 4:8). God is holy (Lev 19:2). God is light (1 John 1:5). We are going to learn three ways to follow God’s example which involve his love (1-2), holiness (3-7), and light (8-20).


I. Walk in love (1-2)


Verse 1 gives the key direction for godly life. It says, “Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children….” The previous version of NIV, ESV, and NASB say “be imitators of God” as dearly loved children…” KJV says “Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children.” What does “be imitators” mean? For example, copycat story about smart phones. Educationally speaking, it is the stage of learning or mastering one field of study. In education, when we are going to master one kind of study or skill, first we must imitate a teacher for 10 years. After 10 years, then, one is fully qualified to be a creative scholar or skilled person. Without imitation, there is no one who really masters his study or skill. In order to become imitators of God, we must give all our hearts to do so. Still, to imitate God is not easy.


We must be imitators of God, because we are children of God. We must be imitators of God because we are to become like him. We must repent of our lack of imitation and wholeheartedly copy God’s heart in our daily lives and be children of God. How can we imitate God? Paul present three examples – love, holy, and light.


Look at verse 2, “…and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” Here, love is giving; love is sacrifice. When someone is downhearted, giving them a word of encouragement is love. When someone is in need in some way, to provide for them is love. The greatest love is to give oneself up for others (John 15:13). Jesus’ death on the cross is the greatest expression of his love for us. Jesus not only solved our sin problem, but he also became our example. 1 John 3:16 says, “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.” For example, when someone needs intensive care, it is not easy to help them, bringing them to our homes. This involves sacrificing our privacy, money, time and energy. Jesus’ love is accepted to God as a fragrant offering. When we sacrifice ourselves to love others, it is accepted to God as an offering and sacrifice. In this part, we find that God’s example is forgiving love, while Christ’s example is giving love. In order to grow in godliness we need to practice God’s forgiving love and Christ’s giving love.


II. Live as God’s holy people (3-7)


In this part, Paul tells us how to live as God’s holy people. He warns against two groups of elements which Christians must avoid. And he gives us the reasons why. The first group is in verse 3. “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.” The words “not even a hint” tell us that these things should be completely out from the Christian fellowship. The first thing is sexual immorality. This comes from the Greek word “por-ni-ah,” from which we get the word pornography. It refers to illicit sexual intercourse, adultery, fornication, homosexuality, and intercourse with animals. In regards to impurity, Jesus said in Mark 7:21-23, “For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come–sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and defile a person.” These things ruin our personality. They are contagious like a disease, and quickly spread to poison the Christian fellowship. The problem is that we cannot manage these evils by our will power. We need the blood of Jesus to cleanse us, which alone can purify us from all sin (1 John 1:9).


Paul gives a clear reason why God’s people should avoid these things: “…because these are improper for God’s holy people” (3b). He who called us is holy, so we should be holy in all we do, for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy” (1 Peter 1:16). Holiness is not about going to church or temple. It is a matter of heart and mind. Paul said in Romans 12:2a: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” A Christian’s way of life is different from that of worldly people. Our value system is different; our way of thinking is different; and our world view is different. We have the great privilege of living among God’s holy people. We must live holy lives out of respect for God and our dear brothers and sisters.


We find a second group of things to avoid in verse 4: “Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk, or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.” These are all related to speech. We have freedom of speech. However, many people abuse this freedom to speak without reverence for God or respect for others. They think this is their human right. It seems that most television/YouTube these days are filled with this kind of speech. But this kind of talk carries poison within it. It can damage others’ faith and purity. We should not be influenced by the world’s language. Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt….” We should always remember God’s grace and be mindful of others when we talk. Thanksgiving should mark our speech (4). Thanksgiving leads to mutual encouragement and the building up of God’s community. This honors God.


Verse 5 tells us the serious consequences of living an unholy life: “For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person–such a person is an idolater–has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.” Living in a world overflowing with these vices, it is easy for us to compromise. But to God, there is no compromise. After mentioning in verse 3 to avoid greed, Paul here points out that a greedy person is an idolater. We must take the greed problem seriously. A symptom of greed is obsession. So many people are obsessive for things such as money, power, fame, and so on, and they seek these things blindly instead of seeking God first. Such people cannot have any inheritance in the kingdom of God. Jesus warned again and again in the gospels that such people will be thrown outside, where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth (Mt 8:12; 13:42; 13:50; 22:13; 24:51; 25:30; Luke 13:28).


In verse 6 Paul gives another strong warning: “Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.” This is a warning against false teachers. In Paul’s day some deceived people with the idea that the body is evil and the soul is good. They claimed, “It is okay to sin in our bodies, for they are evil anyway. Our souls will still go to heaven.” In a similar way, in our time, some teachers deny the guilt of sin by means of science. They may claim that it is very natural to be sexually immoral or greedy as a human being. They even use empty words of praise to honor those who live ungodly lives. We should be aware that Satan is working behind such people. Satan is a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44). His purpose of deception is destruction. So we should not allow empty words to deceive us. Rather, we must hold the truth of Jesus, which leads us to life, in our hearts. Those who are deceived have no excuse. They are disobedient. God’s wrath comes upon them.


As a conclusion, in verse 7, Paul tells us, “Therefore do not be partners with them.” This does not mean not to associate with unbelievers. If we try to do this, we must go live on a mountainside somewhere. It does mean not to have intimate relationships with ungodly people through which we are badly influenced. To conclude this part on holiness, we Christians live in this world, but we do not belong to the world. We are not to be influenced by the world, but to influence the world as salt and light (Mt 5:13-14).


III. Live as children of light (8-20)


In verses 3-7, Paul gave strong warnings about what not to do which are scary. However, in verses 8-20 he gives positive instructions that give us hope and vision. Paul reminds us of our new identity and encourages us to wake up and live as children of light (8-14). He tells us how to live wisely in evil days (15-20). To live as children of light we must wake up and live wisely.


First, wake up (8-14). Look at verse 8. “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light….” Paul reminded them that they had been completely changed from children of darkness into children of light. How was it possible? When they were in the darkness they did not know where they came from or where they were going. They lived to gratify the cravings of their flesh and followed its desires and thoughts (2:3). So they were immoral, greedy and unholy. But the light of the gospel shone on them and they became children of light (2 Corinthians 4:6). So Paul explained that now they should live as children of light, and produce the fruit of light: goodness, righteousness and truth (9). One woman sought secret pleasure through an adulterous lifestyle. But one day, she was caught and exposed publicly. People were ready to stone her to death. At this critical moment Jesus said, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” He saved her, saying, “Neither do I condemn you. Go now and leave your life of sin.” Then he taught how to live in the light, saying, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life” (John 8:12).


Paul teaches us how children of light live. The “light” metaphor describes Christian openness and transparency as we live joyfully in the presence of Christ, with nothing to hide or fear. Look at verse 10. “…and find out what pleases the Lord.” The verb “find out” means discovering through practice. Without practice we cannot know what pleases the Lord. When we were in the darkness, our life purpose was to please ourselves. But when we came into the light of Jesus, our life purpose changed to please the Lord.


When we live as children of light, our light shines and exposes fruitless deeds of darkness and shameful behavior (11-12). Then what happens? Verse 13 says, “But everything exposed by the light becomes visible–and everything that is illuminated becomes a light.” This light brings about two good results. First, the light exposes the ugly realities of evil. Without exposure, evil remains a hidden poison, like undetected cancer. Second, the light transforms what it illumines into light. When Christians live in the light they help to restrain evil, reform evildoers and even transform them. So in verse 14, Paul concluded, “Wake up, sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”


Second, live as the wise (15-20). In verses 15-20 Paul teaches us how to live as children of light practically. He begins by saying in verses 15-16, “Be very careful, then, how you live–not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” We must live as the wise. “Wisdom” refers to the function of the mind to discern what is right and wrong, and to choose what is most valuable. This includes the way we use our time. We should not waste time. Everyone has the same amount of time. One difference between the wise and the foolish is how they use their time. Foolish people waste their time. But wise people make the most of every opportunity. Wise people set apart time to meet the Lord every day. They receive God’s wisdom. God’s wisdom is superior to any human wisdom. Wise people try to understand what the Lord’s will is instead of being concerned only about their own desires and pleasures.


People need a kind of joy living in this hard world. The foolish person gets drunk or something that leads to corruption, regrets, and miseries. But the wise person is instead filled with the Holy Spirit who gives perfect joy and peace. When we are filled with the Holy Spirit, we can speak to one another with psalms, hymns and songs from the Spirit. We can sing and make music from our hearts to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ (19-20). We find here characteristics of Christian fellowship; it is full of songs, full of thanksgiving, full of praise, full of joy, full of life. As we recognize him and worship him, we encounter him. He is our source of happiness, joy and wisdom. This transforms us to grow in his likeness. Vibrant worship is important for us to grow and to shine God’s light into the world. Today we thought about the words, “be imitators of God.” May God help us to decide to be imitators of God. Let us follow God’s example by walking in love, living as God’s holy people and living as light in the Lord.

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